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alvin wolff's avatar

I'm turning 70. I'm going to have a lunch where I invite a good friend from each decade of life.

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61-70 It's all about constant reinvention.

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Geoffrey Tanner's avatar

I often celebrate my birthday by having a one-on-one breakfast date with the different friend everyday for 7 days. It's my birthday week!

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Martin Brodsky's avatar

Come my birthday in July, I'm doing this.

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Martin Brodsky's avatar

Love that, Alvin. I'd like to hear about what kind of through-lines you see across all the years.

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Writer Pilgrim by So Elite's avatar

What a great idea!

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Jim J Wilsky's avatar

Martin, a great post with an even greater message. Appreciate you sharing it.

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Martin Brodsky's avatar

Thanks for the kind words, Jim!

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Writer Pilgrim by So Elite's avatar

Alone does not have to mean you're lonely! Very inspired by the photograph comment. I didn't know that. Thank you! Photos around the house...

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Bob Hoebeke's avatar

Thanks bud, I've sent it on.

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Judy Lohrer's avatar

Really well written Marty. Great insights

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Martin Brodsky's avatar

Thanks, Judy!

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Henya Drescher's avatar

An intelligent article, as well as relatable.

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Martin Brodsky's avatar

Thanks, Henya!

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Bob Hoebeke's avatar

Gosh, you're profound! Been there, done that - I think I can help. Along with the story we're publishing, I write a weekly "The Author's Thoughts on ..." Two days ago I wrote on Camaraderie. If I could ever figure out how to send you the piece, it's tailor made for you. I'm not scheduled to publish it for another few weeks, but happy to share early if it'd help.

Second, I stumbled across Mike Hoffmann this morning on "X" (@MrPassive_). He's interviewed a lot of old people - you know, my age, asking them about their life's regrets, lessons and advice. The piece features eight of his interviews. IT'S SPOT ON! For Hoffmann to only be in his early thirties, he's pretty well figured out life.

Both his interview and my early release article pretty well bracket your comments. I hope it all can help, and let me know how to get you my article.

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Martin Brodsky's avatar

Bob, thanks for the recs. I'll definitely check out Hoffmann, sounds great. Maybe you can DM me your story? I'd love to read it.

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Dee's avatar

I had a new insight while listening to you! Thoughtful!

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Martin Brodsky's avatar

Thanks, Dee! What's your insight?

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Bob Hoebeke's avatar

(Remember old here,) ahhhhh what's DM?

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Martin Brodsky's avatar

Sorry :) Direct message. Better yet, I'll send you a DM with my email

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